"Everything I ever projected to be, it was—even the stinky, ratty, vomity part of it. Everybody has to do the subway. Everybody has to smell the same smells. And people get mad all the time. When people don’t like something, like ‘Get out of my way you blah, blah, blah.’ But [in L.A.] it’s like, ‘How ya doing? Let’s do lunch! I love you!’"
He was just really spontaneous, and it was just exciting. I was having — Jeff Buckley
"He was just really spontaneous, and it was just exciting. I was having a hard time in the band I was in, and so to meet Jeffrey was just like being given a set of paints. Do you know what I mean? It was just like I had all this colour in my life again. I mean, he idolized me before he met me. Its kind of creepy and I, I was like that with him. This is embarrassing, but its the truth. I just couldnt help falling in love with him. He was adorable. I read his diaries, he read mine, you know wed just swap, wed literally just hand over this very personal stuff, and Ive never done that with anybody else. I dont know if he has. So in some ways it was very, there was a great deal of intimacy but then thered be times when Id just think "oh no, Im just not penetrating this Jeff Buckley boy at all. I just felt like a groupie or something, sometimes. It wasnt like being his partner at all. He just had something you wanted, it didnt matter who you were."

Jeffrey Scott Buckley was an American musician. After a decade as a session guitarist in Los Angeles, he attracted a following in the early 1990s performing at venues in the East Village, Manhattan. He signed with Columbia and released his only studio album, Grace, in 1994. Buckley toured extensively to promote Grace, with concerts in the U.S., Europe, Japan, and Australia.
Jeffrey Scott Buckley was an American musician. After a decade as a session guitarist in Los Angeles, he attracted a following in the early 1990s performing at venues in the East Village, Manhattan. He signed with Columbia and released his only studio album, Grace, in 1994. Buckley toured extensively to promote Grace, with concerts in the U.S., Europe, Japan, and Australia.
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"Dr. Drew: What will you remember most about the 90s? Sebastian Bach: The album Grace by Jeff Buckley. Unless youve heard it, you wouldnt know why. Dr. Drew: Whats your favorite album for a night of steamy monkey love? Sebastian Bach: Jeff Buckleys Grace is the most romantic, sensual album Ive heard in my life."
"AV: You grew up in , what was that like? JB: From womb to tomb, its thug country. Im amazed that I had any friends at all. People grow up repressed from the spirit, day by day by day. Cable TV, its fucked. Its misogyny, its birth, death, work, its misery, its power. Its fuckin hicks. And thats what I grew up with. I was rootless trailer trash. Now I prefer the to any place on the planet. I can be who I am here. I couldnt do it anyplace I lived as a child. I never fit in , even though my roots are there."
"and and , all dark, all romantic. When I say "romantic," I mean a sensibility that sees everything, and has to express everything, and still doesnt know what the fuck it is, it hurts that bad. It just madly tries to speak whatever it feels, and that can mean vast things. That sort of mentality can turn a sun-kissed orange into a flaming meteorite, and make it sound like that in a song."
"He tapped into something...and he was the conduit...and it makes me think of this: where does art come from; where does a true genius come from?"
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"Lovely food, for rabbits, that is."
"One makes mistakes; that is life. But it is never a mistake to have loved."
"[explaining to Ernie how April apologized to him] She just showed up at the factory, took off her coat, and begged me to take her. We made love in a way that Ive only ever seen in nature films."
"Love is always love, come whence it may. A heart that beats at your approach, an eye that weeps when you go away are things so rare, so sweet, so precious that they must never be despised."
"He was obeyed, yet he inspired neither love nor fear, nor even respect. He inspired uneasiness. That was it! Uneasiness. Not a definite mistrust — just uneasiness — nothing more. You have no idea how effective such a... a... faculty can be. He had no genius for organizing, for initiative, or for order even. That was evident in such things as the deplorable state of the station. He had no learning, and no intelligence. His position had come to him — why? Perhaps because he was never ill . . . He had served three terms of three years out there . . . Because triumphant health in the general rout of constitutions is a kind of power in itself."