Quote#Children
An infallible way to make your child miserable is to satisfy all his…
Quote byHenry Home, Lord Kames · 1696–1782
Commonly attributed — not confirmed in an authoritative edition. Cited on Wikiquote to: Treasury of Thought (1881), "Child", p. 76.
English (original)
An infallible way to make your child miserable is to satisfy all his demands. Passion swells by gratification; and the impossibility of satisfying every one of his demands will oblige you to stop short at last, after he has become a little headstrong.
— Henry Home, Lord Kames
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