Quote#Friendship
As nice as we are in love, we forgive more faults in that than in…
Quote byHenry Home, Lord Kames · 1696–1782
Commonly attributed — not confirmed in an authoritative edition. Cited on Wikiquote to: Treasury of Thought (1881), "Love", p. 310.
English (original)
As nice as we are in love, we forgive more faults in that than in friendship. Expostulations betwixt friends end generally ill, but well betwixt lovers.
— Henry Home, Lord Kames
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