Quote#Happiness
What is greatly desired, but long deferred, gives little pleasure,…
Quote byJohn Lancaster Spalding · 1840–1916
Commonly attributed — not confirmed in an authoritative edition. Cited on Wikiquote to: Aphorisms and Reflections (1901), pp. 180-181.
English (original)
What is greatly desired, but long deferred, gives little pleasure, when at length it is ours, for we have lived with it in imagination until we have grown weary of it, having ourselves, in the meanwhile, become other.
— John Lancaster Spalding
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