Quote#Hope
Nothing so apt to inflame passion as hopes and fears: a young woman…
Quote byHenry Home, Lord Kames · 1696–1782
Commonly attributed — not confirmed in an authoritative edition. Cited on Wikiquote to: Treasury of Thought (1881), "Passion", p. 382.
English (original)
Nothing so apt to inflame passion as hopes and fears: a young woman of a calm temper and modest deportment is less apt to attract lovers, than one who is changeable and coquettish; a man of sense and gravity is less apt to succeed with a fine woman than the gay, the giddy, the fluttering coxcomb.
— Henry Home, Lord Kames
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