Quote#Kindness
The initial difficulty...having been slowly overcome...all went very…
Quote byE. V. Lucas · 1868–1938
Commonly attributed — not confirmed in an authoritative edition. Cited on Wikiquote to: Over Bemerton's (1908), ch. 2, p. 12.
English (original)
The initial difficulty...having been slowly overcome...all went very smoothly, and the family quickly dropped company manners and showed me what it really was. Not that the difference was very marked, but a difference of course there always is — company manners being for the most part a kind of sandpaper that removes the asperities (and occasionally the attractions) of personality.
— E. V. Lucas
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