Quote#Speech
I like not only to be loved, but also to be told that I am loved. I…
Quote byGeorge Eliot · 1819–1880
Commonly attributed — not confirmed in an authoritative edition. Cited on Wikiquote to: Letter to Georgiana Burne-Jones, wife of the artist Edward Burne-Jones (1875).
English (original)
I like not only to be loved, but also to be told that I am loved. I am not sure that you are of the same kind. But the realm of silence is large enough beyond the grave. This is the world of light and speech, and I shall take leave to tell you that you are very dear.
— George Eliot
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