Quote#Speech
The Triumph of Wit is to make your good Nature subdue your Censure;…
Quote byGeorge Savile, 1st Marquess of Halifax · 1633–1695
Commonly attributed — not confirmed in an authoritative edition. Cited on Wikiquote to: The Lady's New Year's Gift: or Advice to a Daughter (1688).
English (original)
The Triumph of Wit is to make your good Nature subdue your Censure; to be quick in seeing Faults, and slow in exposing them. You are to consider, that the invisible thing called a Good Name, is made up of the Breath of Numbers that speak well of you; so that if by a disobliging Word you silence the meanest, the Gale will be less strong which is to bear up your Esteem.
— George Savile, 1st Marquess of Halifax
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