Quote#Wisdom
I am not apt to suspect without just cause, but in earnest if I once…
Quote byDorothy Osborne · 1627–1695
Commonly attributed — not confirmed in an authoritative edition. Cited on Wikiquote to: 1653.
English (original)
I am not apt to suspect without just cause, but in earnest if I once find anybody faulty towards me, they lose me for ever; I have forsworn being twice deceived by the same person.
— Dorothy Osborne
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