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The Censor, whose core issue is isolation and connection, splits us in — Starhawk

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"The Censor, whose core issue is isolation and connection, splits us into Silencer and Secret-to-be-kept, tells us, "Dont speak of it; dont see it; youre the only one who ever felt that." Possessed by the Censor, we feel shame confusion, and blame, often for the victim, or we live in denial. The Censor deludes us with the belief that the pain we are in will go away if we dont name it or speak of it."
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Starhawk is an American feminist and writer. She is known as a theorist of feminist neopaganism and ecofeminism. In 2013, she was listed in Watkins' Mind Body Spirit magazine as one of the 100 Most Spiritually Influential Living People.

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